Saturday 4 January 2014

'Meat free' never ever has to be Critic, for 'to go without'

One of the most important concepts when raising a child vegetarian, is to not just serve up a meal and simply leave out the meat...
It is about filling the 'gap', so to speak where meat would of been present otherwise, and replacing it with a nutritious, healthy 'alternative' Organic Tofu, Lentils, Various Beans & Legumes (if tinned make sure it is either sugar and salt free) and as your babies/ childs digestive system grows, organic tempeh and seiten.  As well as green leafy vegetables, and a variety of root vegetables, for example; carrot, squash, sweet potato to name but a small few. Vegetarian parents can opt for flax for their children instead of fish oils,which is available from allgood health stores.
Many tins of baked beans profess on the tin, how they are one of your '5 a day' but be careful as many many brands of baked beans contain a very high, and unnecessary amount of sugar.
One long term,convinient and price conscious way of keeping pulses and beans at the ready is to always have them soaking... buy uncooked beans in bulk from a local health store, and very often now from your local big supermarket,  ready to put on to cook an hr before they will be ready, as we go about our parent duties :) Puy lentils are actually very quick to cook, with no soaking, and make any meat based meal, a hearty, healthy vegetarian or vegan alternative!!
Sometimes, meal times with a small baby especially can be bit of a panic, especially when all you want is to feed your baba the best for their health needs... so convinience is a must, but convinience does not have to mean unhealthy, never :) a quick homemade sauce for some baby pasta can be made prior and heated later on.... frozen veg, which is, in my opinion locked with goodness, can be added to meals and cooked in minutes.
Sometimes, ok alot of the time :) the day can getaway from you, and luckily there are plenty of organic pre made baby foods out there for those days, once we don't do it too often a week ;) An age old mama's saviour for this, is freezing homemade food ready for the next days feed, and so forth!
'Meat free' never ever has to mean 'critic' for, to go without! ;)

Thursday 2 January 2014

Before celebrities, there is mum and dad.

For every bright eyed new mum celebrity, there is a mum who has been awake all night. For every magazine soccer mum, there is a single mother who takes her son to sports, works, makes dinner and still works in the home after her child has gone to bed. For every David Beckam dad, there is a dad who goes out at the earliest hours of a cold morning to provide the best he can for his child. For every Jolie-Pitts with nannys galore, there are parents struggling, and giving hand me downs. And for every post baby body Beyonce, there is a stay at home mum getting asked "what she does all day?" With respect to celebrities, who have worked to get where they are, all parents worldwide, work just as hard, to provide the best... parenthood is not the celebrity accessorie the tabloids and glam mags edit it to be, it is messy, it is hard, it is overwhelmingly emotional, it is very tiring, it is frustrating, it is constantly questioning yourself, it is true honest love, it is selfless, and more than anything .... it is worth it all. AND for every parent who gets to finish a trip to the toilet in peace..... there's another who considers it a miracle!  
We don't all have helpers or nannys, so if you really want a child, know that you may not always have time glamour yourself daily, or to even brush your hair before you bring your baby for a walk.... but what you will have, is the unconditional non judgemental love, no magazine can ever photoshop  
We are the first celebrities are children will ever know... so don't try to become the celebrity parents, we ourselves see in the media. Our children don't care.... be humble and happy with who you are, it gives our children the best possible chance, to follow suit xox -The 'alternative' Parent xox